lonely, but not desperate

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lonely, but not desperate

by idontknowwhy @ 2009-05-08 – 01:44:42

been out with a few girls tonight
to a bar that's supposed to be a singlesish night, in a full pub not one bloke took my eye, there were three of us all single. and in a crowded pub not one of us fancied any one. I mean don't get me wrong we had a great night out, but how do u meet someone decent????? i mean i work in a female dominated field, so meeting someone in work is mainly out of the question. blokes u meet in pubs are twats and blokes online well..... the initial chemistry is missing, so what do i i do???? i mean i don't care that much i am generally happy but u know a girl has needs and well i need a cuddle too bah life is too complicated. I sometime think i was born in the wrong era!
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- soyunperdedor ^Pro
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- 2009-05-08 @ 01:51:15
You need a week in a hippy commune, that'll sort you out.
- - idontknowwhy
  - 2009-05-08 @ 01:55:58
  nah i couldn't do the lack of washing and shaving hairy areas
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- malakeas ^Pro
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- 2009-05-08 @ 02:25:01
I understand you being lonely but you are lovely and one day someone worthy of you will notice and sweep you off your feet. xx
- - idontknowwhy
  - 2009-05-08 @ 14:13:57
  knowing my luck he will be a road sweeper thanks hun, i'm not unhappy being single but just a bit bored of it. xx
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- QueeneMab
- 2009-05-08 @ 07:16:16
Physical attraction is a big part of it, but sometimes you find the right person through friendship first rather than being on "the pull".

I think the best way to meet someone is through a shared interest or activity, at least that way you get to meet someone with whom you have some common ground. In a pub all you are going to see is whether or not they are physically attractive, if they are pissed you will see the worst side of them. If you are pissed they are going to look hot whatever.

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- - idontknowwhy
  - 2009-05-08 @ 14:16:30
  my days of being "on the pull" are well over, it used to be fun but i am far too old to get involved in that rubbish. I was thinking about going to an evening class because i get bored some nights but it's finding the right one xx
  - - QueeneMab
    - 2009-05-08 @ 20:14:10
    That sounds like a good idea.
    
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- brokendownangel ^Pro
- 2009-05-08 @ 09:40:54
Agree with QM, join a group that interests you where you might meet like minded blokes - not flower arranging - trust me they are gonna bat for the other team! Or the internet - as long as you are careful and meet up first with a mate in tow or in a public place it is no worse than meeting in a pub and you get to talk to them online for as long as you want to first x
- - idontknowwhy
  - 2009-05-08 @ 14:18:02
  i should join a carpentry course or something there will be loads of blokes there
  - - brokendownangel ^Pro
    - 2009-05-08 @ 14:35:32
    AND if you didn't like any of them at least you would be able to make your own shelves x
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- Kizzy1984
- 2009-05-14 @ 21:28:20
Its so hard to meet someone. Someone decent and not taken anyway!!
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