i'm not beating myself up about it today, it was just the shock of seeing my mates wedding pics on facebook. I have to just accept that i am amazing and if people go out of my life it's their loss :)) xx more…
There's a theory that we actually create the conditions that suit us. I don't have ANY deep friendships and I accept it is probably because I am quite self contained. I am better with acquaintances, and I will only give myself completely to a very few people (the people I love). Whatever the reason, as everyone has said, there's no need to beat y more…
me too, but i suppose i miss the days when I was surrounded by really close friends and we knew eachother inside and out. No one has the time for that including me. I have great friends now but i can't help romantisitisng the old days. Maybe when i'm a pensioner i'll get it all back :)) more…
Friendships need nurturing i suppose, if we can't do that they drift away. I suppose the more you have in your life the less time you have to nurture it xx more…
thankyou, i know what you mean I'm not taking anything away from the friends I have got, i suppose I just need to adjust to the adult world and realise it is not practical to be surrounded by friends all the time, or fair to expect more of them xx more…
i do have friends that i have known for twenty years and stuff, i suppose i just wish i had more contact with them. It's hard when everyone has their own lives and priorities. I have come to learn not to fight it and make people stay friends, I do generally take it with a pinch of salt its just sometimes i get annoyed with it, i probably wouldn't g more…
think it was just the impact of seeing my mates pics on facebook. I know i can't change anything it just seems like a waste to loose all these people i was so close with. x more…
Friendships with people come and go. When you have a close friendship with someone it is right at the time and when the time is right you both move on, it doesn't make it less special.
I have no friends left from high school. I am in touch with three, friends with one, acquaintances with the other two. I have two friends from where I used to live, one of whom I am still fairly close with, the other who is drifitng away. Here I have a few friends, but I think I would stay in touch with only one or two if we moved. I think a lot of more…
I think you are a nice and good person. This is just from having met you a few times and reading your stuff here of course, so you could be the most evil person in the world...
;)
Friendships come and go, but you know you can make a new circle of friends when you need one. But I don't think that is what you want, you want more…
People are all different, you can't analyse things like this because no two groups of friends are exactly the same.
I have some friends from primary school who I still class as close friends, but we speak rarely now. Same with secondary school. I have friends I've met only in the last few years who speak to me more often. A friend who more…
I have a few close friends from school, one from primary school, but I have others I've become to close to over the years through work and other place, here for example. Some come and go, some stay.
I found out my best mate from school was gay through a friend I had little to do with.
it has a video but i don't know how good it is, i might still buy one of them anyway :)) my friend might be having a new year party you can be my plus one. Not sure if she has decided on it yet, we only talked about it this week. more…
So the singles disco really was as bad as you thought it would be then..but at least you got sweets! :))
And you will see your brother soon..Time flies so fast..and he will have an amazing time ..and think of all the fab things he(might!) bring you back! xxx more…
You will see him before the year is out hun and get to spend time with him over there! It is a great new adventure for him, and yours will be starting as soon as you qualify too. As for that disco, well chalk it up to experience, realise there are much sadder lives out there than yours and be grateful to have won the sweeties :DD more…
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In response to: "rant ahoy" 5 days old
by PurpleDragon [Member]
Yeah, but how much more satisfaction to know that one day he will have to bend over to get the soap. more…
In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 11 days old
by idontknowwhy [Member]
i'm not beating myself up about it today, it was just the shock of seeing my mates wedding pics on facebook. I have to just accept that i am amazing and if people go out of my life it's their loss :)) xx more…
In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 11 days old
by spokesperson Pro
There's a theory that we actually create the conditions that suit us. I don't have ANY deep friendships and I accept it is probably because I am quite self contained. I am better with acquaintances, and I will only give myself completely to a very few people (the people I love). Whatever the reason, as everyone has said, there's no need to beat y more…
In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 11 days old
by idontknowwhy [Member]
me too, but i suppose i miss the days when I was surrounded by really close friends and we knew eachother inside and out. No one has the time for that including me. I have great friends now but i can't help romantisitisng the old days. Maybe when i'm a pensioner i'll get it all back :)) more…
In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 11 days old
by idontknowwhy [Member]
Friendships need nurturing i suppose, if we can't do that they drift away. I suppose the more you have in your life the less time you have to nurture it xx more…
In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 11 days old
by idontknowwhy [Member]
thankyou, i know what you mean I'm not taking anything away from the friends I have got, i suppose I just need to adjust to the adult world and realise it is not practical to be surrounded by friends all the time, or fair to expect more of them xx more…
In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 11 days old
by idontknowwhy [Member]
i do have friends that i have known for twenty years and stuff, i suppose i just wish i had more contact with them. It's hard when everyone has their own lives and priorities. I have come to learn not to fight it and make people stay friends, I do generally take it with a pinch of salt its just sometimes i get annoyed with it, i probably wouldn't g more…
In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 11 days old
by idontknowwhy [Member]
think it was just the impact of seeing my mates pics on facebook. I know i can't change anything it just seems like a waste to loose all these people i was so close with. x more…
In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 12 days old
by malakeas Pro
I have a few close friends but many acquaintances that come with whatever I am doing at the time. Those acquaintances come and go with the activity.
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In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 12 days old
by QueeneMab [Member]
Friendships with people come and go. When you have a close friendship with someone it is right at the time and when the time is right you both move on, it doesn't make it less special.
You are a lovely person.
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In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 12 days old
by PurpleDragon [Member]
I have no friends left from high school. I am in touch with three, friends with one, acquaintances with the other two. I have two friends from where I used to live, one of whom I am still fairly close with, the other who is drifitng away. Here I have a few friends, but I think I would stay in touch with only one or two if we moved. I think a lot of more…
In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 12 days old
by Old-Nick Pro
I think you are a nice and good person. This is just from having met you a few times and reading your stuff here of course, so you could be the most evil person in the world...
;)
Friendships come and go, but you know you can make a new circle of friends when you need one. But I don't think that is what you want, you want more…
In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 12 days old
by scoobydoofus Pro
People are all different, you can't analyse things like this because no two groups of friends are exactly the same.
I have some friends from primary school who I still class as close friends, but we speak rarely now. Same with secondary school. I have friends I've met only in the last few years who speak to me more often. A friend who more…
In response to: "how do you know when a friendship is built to last?" 12 days old
by LandersUK [Member]
I have a few close friends from school, one from primary school, but I have others I've become to close to over the years through work and other place, here for example. Some come and go, some stay.
I found out my best mate from school was gay through a friend I had little to do with.
I don't speak to either of them now! more…
In response to: "no korea for me" 15 days old
by spokesperson Pro
sorry about your bad news, but glad you're still on here.
i'm back! more…
In response to: "no korea for me" 29 days old
by idontknowwhy [Member]
yeah nikon D3000 how did u know? more…
In response to: "no korea for me" 29 days old
by Esspee [Member]
Sorry to hear, what camera you got???? Please say Nikon! ;)
Steve x more…
In response to: "no korea for me" 29 days old
by xmillyxxx Pro
That sucks :( ... Hugs xx more…
In response to: "no korea for me" 29 days old
by Old-Nick Pro
That is a bit of a shitter.
Sorry to hear that.
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In response to: "no korea for me" 29 days old
by sweetymon [Member]
That sucks. :( But nice consolation prize! xx more…
In response to: "no korea for me" 29 days old
by idontknowwhy [Member]
it has a video but i don't know how good it is, i might still buy one of them anyway :)) my friend might be having a new year party you can be my plus one. Not sure if she has decided on it yet, we only talked about it this week. more…
In response to: "no korea for me" 29 days old
by soyunperdedor Pro
£400!!!! I hope it has an amazing video camera on it as well?
Shall we do something for new year? I know I'm not Korea, but hey, I can try to be if you want me to.
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In response to: "no korea for me" 29 days old
by malakeas Pro
That is a damn shame. Xxxx more…
In response to: "kids constantly suprise me" 41 days old
by barneyrulz [Member]
That's so sweet x more…
In response to: "kids constantly suprise me" 42 days old
by brokendownangel Pro
What a lovely way of her expressing herself too x more…
In response to: "kids constantly suprise me" 42 days old
by xmillyxxx Pro
I would be flattered too :) xx more…
In response to: "kids constantly suprise me" 42 days old
by QueeneMab [Member]
Actually that is quite touching.
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In response to: "discos and goodbyes" 43 days old
by xmillyxxx Pro
So the singles disco really was as bad as you thought it would be then..but at least you got sweets! :))
And you will see your brother soon..Time flies so fast..and he will have an amazing time ..and think of all the fab things he(might!) bring you back! xxx more…
In response to: "discos and goodbyes" 43 days old
by Old-Nick Pro
So singles disco equates to middle aged desperate disco?
Well us desperate middle aged people have to go somewhere now don't we? more…
In response to: "discos and goodbyes" 43 days old
by brokendownangel Pro
You will see him before the year is out hun and get to spend time with him over there! It is a great new adventure for him, and yours will be starting as soon as you qualify too. As for that disco, well chalk it up to experience, realise there are much sadder lives out there than yours and be grateful to have won the sweeties :DD more…